JOURNEY TO MARRIAGE (PART 7) – THE FIRST RED FLAGS 🚩🚩🚩

Daughter from Kenya: “Shalom Papa, I have a guy (man) who says he wants to settle down with me. From my first marriage, I have a FEAR n can’t tell whether he’s the one or not. Kindly advice”

PrayersFire Ministry: DAUGHTER, LEARN TO HEAR FROM GOD FIRST BEFORE RUNNING AFTER ANY SEER. YOU DON’T NEED 3RD PARTY TO CONFIRM A GODLY SUITOR IF YOU’RE TRULY GODLY YOURSELF.

IF YOU TRULY FEAR GOD YOU WON’T FEAR TAKING GODLY DECISIONS

Daughter: “I hear you, Papa”

PrayersFire Ministry: 1. DON’T BE UNEQUALLY YOKED

2. MARRY A GOD-FEARING MAN

3. DON’T MARRY A DEFICIT OR LIABILITY

4. MARRY YOUR SOULMATE, MARRY YOUR FRIEND, DON’T MARRY A STRANGER TO THE COMMONWEALTH OF ISRAEL

5. DON’T MARRY FOR SEX, MARRY FOR LIFE COMPANIONSHIP

6. DON’T MARRY A PUPPET OF PARENTS AND OF FRIENDS, MARRY A LOVER AND FOLLOWER OF GOD

7. DON’T MARRY FOR MONEY, MARRY FOR RESPONSIBILITY. IF HE HAS NO JOB THERE’S NO WAY YOU CAN PROVE HE’S A RESPONSIBLE MAN

8. DON’T MARRY FOR POSITION, MARRY FOR VISION, ASK HIM HIS VISION FOR BOTH OF YOU FOR THE NEXT 40 YEARS

9. DON’T MARRY LOVE, MARRY FOR RESPECT AND SUBMISSION. IF YOU CAN’T RESPECT HIM, THEN HE’S NOT YOUR HUSBAND! EVEN IF HE GENUINELY AND TRULY LOVES YOU, IF HE DOESN’T LOVE GOD, HE WOULD WAKE UP ONE DAY HATING YOU, AND THAT’S THE END OF THE MARRIAGE

10. DON’T MARRY FOR BEAUTY OR HANDSOMENESS, OR PHYSIQUE, MARRY FOR VIRTUE AND SPIRITUAL STAMINA.

11. DON’T MARRY FOR GIFTS/FLOWERS OR SWEET SPEECHES, MARRY FOR THE VOICE OF GOD YOU HEARD! FOR THE FLOWER FADETH!

Daughter: “Papa, You’re truly blessed, the advice is real. Dad, I hear you…I even see my past mistakes”

“Papa let me talk like your own daughter now, He’s mentioned wanting me as his life companion, not influenced by parents and friends, respecting me, being responsible n off course he has a job + his a director, being there for my son and above all God fearing…. Where am I headed to Dad?”

“Dad, do you think sex will make him bond with me? Today he’s invited me for dinner in his place… How do I handle it? How and when do you get to know one another if I don’t honor this invitation?”

PrayersFire Ministry:🚩🚩🚩 FIRST RED FLAGS. POLITELY TURN HIM DOWN IF IT’S NOT OUTSIDE HIS HOME! THAT’S THE FIRST TRAP MANY DESPERATE LADIES FALL INTO

SEX WAS INSTITUTED BY GOD TO HAPPEN INSIDE AND NOT OUTSIDE MARRIAGE.

ONCE YOU HAVE SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE, YOU BREAK THE LAW OF MATRIMONY. EVERY BREAK OF THE LAW ATTRACTS AUTOMATIC PUNISHMENT! THAT MARRIAGE WON’T HOLD, AND IF IT HOLDS, IT WILL BE FILLED WITH INFIRMITY OF INFIDELITY

IF HE SUCCEEDS IN SLEEPING WITH YOU ON FIRST DATE, THERE WILL BE NO PROMISED JOB (IF HE PROMISED YOU ONE), AND THERE WILL BE NO MARRIAGE. THOUGH THERE MAY BE MUCH MONETARY GIFTS. “RICH” PEOPLE THINK THEY CAN BUY SEX FROM ANY WOMAN. ONCE THEY GIVE YOU BIG MONEY, YOU BECOME THEIR BITCH

TRUE GOD-FEARING RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT BEGIN THIS WAY WITH DINNER IN A PRIVATE HOME.

IT BEGINS FIRST WITH:

ACQUAINTANCESHIP
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FRIENDSHIP
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MUTUAL RESPECTS AND ATTRACTIONS
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COURTSHIP
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WEDDING
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MATRIMONY.

HE’S STILL A STRANGER TO YOU, THAT’S WHY YOU CAN’T TRUST HIM YET TO VISIT HIS HOME, AND THAT’S WHY YOU WANT TO TEST HIM FIRST BEFORE YOU GRADUALLY STARTS TRUSTING HIM.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO GO TO HIS PRIVATE HOUSE OR BEDROOM BEFORE YOU STARTS KNOWING HIM. IT IS THE QUALITY OF TIME YOU SPEND TOGETHER DAILY IN GOD’S HOLY PRESENCE THAT DETERMINES THE DEPTH OF KNOWLEDGE AND FRIENDSHIP YOU HAVE WITH HIM NOT BY VISITING HIS HOUSE

Daughter: “I hear you dad”