The 9 Mistakes That (Almost) All Christian Singles Make – And What to Do About It

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The Big Lie.

People say it different ways.

It usually starts out: “As long as you honor God with your substance… ”
And then they finish it with…

“… God will reward you with a wonderful spouse.”
“… you can claim your marriage partner.”
“… and have a marriage made in heaven.”

And so on.

Well, part of it is true.

Some people appear to have things easy. They don’t face the same struggles regular people do.

But for the vast majority of single men and women I have come across, the story is different. It’s been a continuous battle and they are fed up with the single life and the dating game.

Years ago Dr. Neil Clarke Warren, founder of eHarmony.com, made the observation that millions of singles would love to get married – but only if they could live happily and forever with their partners.

And the truth is:

The whole frustrating, exhilarating, maddening, crazy game of dating has left many confused, baffled and hopeless.

This is hard to swallow for most Christian singles.

Especially when they’ve always been told that as long as you live a decent Christian life and look presentable that you are all set.

It should break your heart to see that many have been living decently for years … but they are suddenly waking up to discover that while they are rapidly approaching the proverbial age of 40, the hope of a happy marriage seems to be receding … like a mirage as the years go by.

Why is this so?

There are 9 deadly mistakes that almost all singles are making … in a desperate attempt to meet and settle down with their godly spouse.

*** Mistake #1
Having idols in the heart

This is one of the biggies. Please pay close attention here. In the Bible, anything that takes the place of God in your heart is an idol. God wants to have first place in your life. Especially when it comes to the issue of a godly spouse. HE has already kept His best for you. And you have to go to Him in prayer to find out.

And herein lies the danger …

If you go to God with your mind already made up about someone you want and then you just ask Him to “rubberstamp” your preference for you … by asking Him to show you if that person is your godly spouse, you will most likely hear the voice of your own emotions echoed back to you … and NOT really God’s voice.

In this case, God can even say YES if He sees that in your heart of hearts you’ve already made up your mind!

The Bible actually says that if you come to God with an “idol” in your heart He will answer you according to what you have in your heart.

*** Mistake #2
Ignoring your vehicle of destiny

Your vehicle of destiny is a certain skill, talent, attribute or gift that God has given you … by means of which He will deliver His best for your life, including your godly spouse.

For some it is hospitality. For others it is the milk of human kindness. For others it is the ability to be persistent in the face of all odds.

Yours could be spiritual or physical.

Maybe the ability to sing. Or help others in one way or the other. It is supposed to be your most dominant attribute. But if you don’t recognize it … and make full use of it, most of your blessings will be passing you by.

We see a good example of this in the Bible when we read the fascinating story of a young woman called Rebekah and how she got connected with her godly spouse.

*** Mistake #3
Continuing to engage in any form of sex outside marriage

The Bible says clearly that our body is the temple of the Holy Ghost. We are warned against all form of sexual activity outside marriage.

When you violate this crucial spiritual principle, you literally give the devil license to put you in a spiritual cage.

No one can find you.

Or propose marriage.

You could still be walking around – as beautiful as ever – but in the spiritual realm the devil has already written something like “Not Available” right across your forehead.

*** Mistake #4
Being ignorant of the mystery of spiritual marriage

There is something called spiritual marriage. So many singles who are unable to get married in the physical are already married to certain spirits as far as the spiritual world is concerned.
You will have a clue if you regularly have sex in the dream, or wake up feeling sexually aroused.

*** Mistake #5
Getting into ungodly associations

Ungodly associations such as consulting with astrologers, mediums, witches, occult people can lead you into forming soul ties with such people. What’s worse, they can plant a spiritual device in an individual to monitor her anywhere she goes. And when anything good is about to happen to that person an alarm is activated in the spirit realm and invisible powers are quickly assigned to abort it.

In the specific case of marriage and relationships, if and when the person happens to meet their godly spouse, an announcement goes out in the spirit realm to make sure the relationship is disrupted.
At any cost!

*** Mistake #6
Ignoring unbroken covenants

A covenant is an agreement binding on two or more parties. Some could be generational. Others could be as a result of one’s present activities.

There is a particularly important hidden covenant that doesn’t get mentioned all that often. You need to be aware of it when dealing with the subject of your godly spouse.

It is called the covenant with the first sexual partner.
A hidden but very powerful covenant is formed with the first person you had sex with. In fact it is a covenant of blood – very stubborn to break. And it can hinder many from getting married.

*** Mistake #7
Dismissing the subject of unholy dressing

When Christians insist on dressing like the people of the world, they end up attracting the unwanted attention of spirit beings … who are enamoured by their sexy dressing… and insist on following them around in the spirit, fighting over them just like humans would.

Many singles praying for a spouse may end up driving away their God-ordained spouse unintentionally because these invisible powers following them around want them all to themselves … without any competition!

*** Mistake #8
Ignoring the activities of evil manipulators

There are matchmakers in the spiritual world. Most of them evil. Their job is to provide counterfeit spouses. And manipulate people out of the will of God.
Now, the Bible clearly warns against being unequally yoked together with unbelievers – in 2 Corinthians 6 verse 14.

*** Mistake #9
Leaving unbroken curses in place

Many singles today come from cursed families or communities … where people never stay married, separation and divorce is the order of the day, etc. Even in some families, all the women never get married. Or marry late. Or have broken marriages.

Such people need to spiritually separate themselves from such backgrounds.
And then begin to pray in earnest.

*** Prayer for a Spouse

There is a 9-step prayer blueprint for christian singles who are interested in prayers to find love.

Here’s a summary of the steps involved:

Step 1: You need to deeply repent of these mistakes and ask the Lord for forgiveness.
Step 2: Appropriate the atoning sacrifice of the blood of Jesus.
Step 3: Identify and deal with satanic entry points.
Step 4: Break and renounce all ungodly relationships and associations.
Step 5: Violently issue a bill of divorce in the spirit realm.
Step 6: Bind and cast out evil plantations from your body.
Step 7: Command evil spiritual deposit to be flushed out of your life.
Step 8: Execute judgment on stubborn powers that refuse to let you go.
Step 9: Learn the 17 targeted prayers for Christian singles dating.

Day Prayer Focus

  1. Repent before the LORD and receive His forgiveness
  2. Break anti-marriage yokes, curses and covenants
  3. Break evil dedication and soul-ties
  4. Eject satanic plantations and evacuate evil deposits
  5. Send confusion to the camp of the enemy (of your marriage)
  6. Withdraw your virtues from evil altars (blood, clothes, finances)
  7. Break evil spiritual marriages (no more sex in the dream)
  8. Destroy evil family patterns i.e. divorce, separation, abusive relationships, etc.
  9. Dismantle invisible walls separating you and your godly spouse
  10. Know the secrets (spiritual secrets about your upcoming marriage)
  11. Loose the grip of anger (so you don’t foolishly drive away your godly spouse in a fit of anger)
  12. Receive the baptism of fire … for total spiritual reconditioning
  13. Receive the baptism of fresh fire … for spiritual exploits
  14. Pray to discover God’s will for you in marriage (so you can summarily dismiss all fakes and counterfeits)
  15. Uncage your partner … so he/she can locate you FAST
  16. Pray on target while engaged to be married … so the enemy does not throw a wrench in your plans
  17. Pray against anti-marriage infirmity (STDs, blood diseases, tumors, etc)
  18. Carry out environmental spiritual sanitation (I’ll show you how to spray Holy Ghost insecticide through prayers)
  19. Pray against satanic reinforcement (Note: the enemy of your marriage will not be happy that you’ve discovered these prayers … and will try to stage a comeback!)
  20. Pray against sudden counterattack
  21. Prayer of thanksgiving (a practical demonstration of your faith that the LORD has answered you)

Whether you are a Christian currently dating or not, or whether you join a Christian singles dating site, there are prayers for singles that you should be praying to find the love of your life. As you deal with the mistakes explained here, the Lord will move you from single to married faster than you could ever imagine.

Elisha Goodman is a prayer coach and author of the popular “Prayer Cookbook for Busy People” series. He is the founder of the eagle singles blog at http://www.eaglesinglesblog.com, a new prayer community site with prayers for Christian singles. You can download the complete “9 Mistakes Report” by visiting http://www.firesprings.com/sreport.htm

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50 Comments on "The 9 Mistakes That (Almost) All Christian Singles Make – And What to Do About It"

  1. praise God am glad i have found this site and i have faith my life will change for the better

  2. Lucy, Praise the Lord continually and you will surely be transformed by His word if you do not conform to the world, but walk in His word. Romans12:2

  3. Angeline. From Zimbabwe | July 1, 2012 at 9:08 pm | Reply

    I bless the Lord for such a helpful site, am excited and believing God for a husband who will love me as Christ loves the church and am also praying that the Lord moulds me to be the wife that God and my husband want me to be. A testimony is on its way coz nothing is too hard for my God. I believe this is my season coz i feel prompted to pray and believe God for this like never before, behold my God is doing a new thing Hallelujah! Brothers and sisters our God is able, lets unite in prayer and believe His word that says when 2 or more are gathered in my name…. ! We might not be physically together but we are believing God for one good cause. Lets unite and make a demand on the Heavens, God will surely move. Is there anything too hard for our God?

  4. Angeline. From Zimbabwe | July 1, 2012 at 9:09 pm | Reply

    I bless the Lord for such a helpful site, am excited and believing God for a husband who will love me as Christ loves the church and am also praying that the Lord moulds me to be the wife that God and my husband want me to be. A testimony is on its way coz nothing is too hard for my God. I believe this is my season coz i feel prompted to pray and believe God for this like never before, behold my God is doing a new thing Hallelujah! Brothers and sisters our God is able, lets unite in prayer and believe His word that says when 2 or more are gathered in my name…. ! We might not be physically together but we are believing God for one good cause. Lets unite and make a demand on the Heavens, God will surely move. Is there anything too hard for our God?

  5. No.54, Please let’s know your name. Give yourself a good name if you dont want people to know you. Your comments on praying for one another is powerful. We must maximise the promise in Matthe18:19,20. God will grant you your heart’s desire and you will share your testimony, in the mighty name of Jesus. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  6. Good Morning guys, I have big news for you all! And this is going to set some people free! AMEN!

    In the past few months, I’ve been so involved in studying marriage, as I believe my calling is in marriage ministry! Though I am young, I am very positive and I have started preparing myself towards it. I have read so many books; I tell you and listen to over 20hrs worth of sermons and still pressing on.
    I came across a book called SPIRITUAL WARFARE
    If you can, please please please buy it here http://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Warfare-Chris-Ojigbani/dp/1607912880/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1305194636&sr=1-1

    I will summarise what the book is about.
    Spiritual warfare is not what we think i.e. fighting with demons. Spiritual warfare actually takes place in our mind

    1- All you need is to change your mentality and you WILL become qualified for a miracle. AMEN!!! I know you are looking for spouses, yes!! If you change the way you think, you will get your spouse, not an ordinary spouse but a Godly spouse. AMEN.

    2- An insurance sales person had been working for over a year, calling prospective clients and none bought from him. He didn’t make a single sale in over a year. He came across a multi millionaire, so he asked him for contacts. The millionaire gave him 6 contacts, the insurance man was now excited and sure that they would buy the insurance from him since they were contacts of the rich man. He was able to speak to five on the phone, all of which invited him for an appointment and bought the insurance policies. Overjoyed, he went back to the millionaire to ask for more contacts, the millionaire handed him the general telephone directory. The exact same one the insurance man had been using. He was shocked. All the while, he hadn’t sold anything because he believed total strangers couldn’t buy from him, but he sold those 5 because he believed that if a millionaire referenced them they must buy. His mentality changed, and he believed he would succeed. And because whatever a man believes happens to him, he acceded in selling the policies.

    What do you believe? Do you believe you can have your heart desires? What do you think will happen seven days from now? Do you think you can have your heart desires within seven days? Beloved, it is in your hands. In life, you get what you believe. No matter how hard a person prays, he can only get what he believes.

    Mark 11:24- Whatever you ask for in prayer, if you believe that you would receive it, you would have it. That is the condition that Jesus gave us. Matthew 17:20. Nothing shall be impossible for those that believe.

    The way to work on your belief is to RENEW your mind!! Even Romans 12:2, says that transformation will take place in your life when your mind is renewed. Once it is renewed, you would believe and subsequently receive your heart desires.

    The power to succeed and fail is in you. You choose what to do. You have the right to decide how and when you want to have your miracle. Many people chose their wedding dates after reading that book and it occurred as they had said it. You too can experience such joy.

    I challenge you to choose when you want your miracle, I don’t know exactly what you want but one thing I am sure of is if you want it NOW, God will do it now. The power is in you.

    The devil has NO power over us. What he uses are tricks, for e.g. THE TRICK OF SPIRIT HUSBAND! Beloved, I tell you there is NOTHING like spirit husband. It is NOWHERE in the Bible. The devil is the one that brought such thoughts into our minds. So, when you believe you have a spirit husband, you then believe that because of him you cant get married, can’t have kids, can’t succeed, that is the only reason it works. There is no such thing, but because you believe, that is why you suffer. Have you not noticed that some of your friends also have sexual dreams but get married with ease and all is well with them? It is because they don’t believe in spirit husband. So, it can NOT hurt then. Please, my people, there is NOTHING like spirit husband or wife or children. The Bible doesn’t mention it. There are THREE sources of dreams- God, devil and you. God can only send you dreams in accordance with His word, so any scary or evil dream is not from Him. All good dreams are from Him, so you better claim them, meditate on them, believe they will happen and they will. Secondly, when you think about something near bedtime, you most likely dream of it, whether good or evil. Lastly, the devil can send dreams to us, BUT these dreams can NEVER harm us. Say AMEN!!! Because he has no power over us. The only time they can harm us is when we believe the dreams and start praying against them. If you have a bad dream, when you wake up, just say- Thank you God for waking me up, I acknowledge that you send only good dreams, therefore the bad dreams I had last night, were of the devil but I choose not to believe them. Only what You say can come to pass in my life, therefore, I believe those dreams will NEVER happen in my life, help me Lord to forget the dream. Amen. (To make it more powerful, when I have bad dreams, I believe the opposite will take place in my life. So, that’s what I focus on) Since I started this new practise, my bad dreams have severely reduced. I was shocked!! Because, once the devil knows that you now know the truth, he doesn’t waste time dealing with you, he will rather move on to another person.. Sometimes, he may try to shake your faith but stand your ground. THEY CAN NEVER TAKE PLACE IN YOUR LIFE, RATHER THE OPPOSITE WILL TAKE PLACE. AMEN!!

    As for sexual dreams, they can be because of what you watched or from the devil. Just ignore them, you have no spirit spouse. You can just say, thank you Lord for waking me up, I am keeping my body pure whilst single but thank you for the gift of sex, which I will enjoy whilst married to my Godly, spouse. So, say it and believe it. For instance, instead of believing you have a spirit spouse, believe that this is a sign of your fast approaching wedding and you shall soon be having sex with your husband or wife.

    Even if someone dies in your dream, it is NOT true. Say Lord, thank you for awakening me, the person that died in my dream, signified the death of their flesh, death of poverty, sickness and now they are healed, now they will live long. AMEN

    These prayers are optional. You don’t need to. You can just forget about the dream and move on! Whatever works best for you.

    Finally, I normally receive a word from Elohim’s basket once a month. Yesterday’s word was Matthew 18:19- Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in Heaven. AMEN

    Normally, I know what the word is referring to, yesterday I didn’t. Until, later on when Angeline from Zimbabwe sent her comment, which said brothers and sisters lets unite in prayer, when two or more are gathered. Then, it dawned on me, God wants to set some people free and give us our miracle. Let’s use this platform in accordance with His word.

    Now, I employ you to take part. We are going to create a prayer chain. Please, this is not a joke. Miracles and testimonies will abound from here. How can two people on the same website comments get the same word. Things are about to happen, wedding proposals are coming, engagement rings, pregnancies, job offers, job promotions, someone is being healed, someone has been kept captive by their dreams, this new knowledge will release you, someone is going from a nobody to a somebody, from a zero to a hero, from academic failure to distinction. Oh, let your mind fathom it.

    1. State your name, either first name, initials or full name.
    I believe we are mostly here for marriage blessing right?
    2. State he kind of spouse you are looking for
    3. State where/when you want to meet him
    4. State the date you want to be engaged by
    5. State your wedding day
    6. State the number of kids you want
    7. State where you will live
    8. State any other details regarding your marriage
    9. State any other prayer requests you have.
    10. If your prayer is not for a spouse, state whatever restoration you need, healing, prosperity, job, academics, fruit of the womb, mention whatever.

    I will go first. Because Angeline was first to go, I will first state in agreement with her and then list my own requests. The person after me, should then state an agreement prayer agreeing with Angeline, agreeing with me and then his/her own prayer. The 4th person, will also agree with the three people before him/her, then state their prayer. Please oblique and in your personal prayer time, whenever you are praying for your marital request, you must include the people before you. Please write their names down. I will also log on at least every two days, just to state a prayer of agreement with everyone, so I will be praying. Please, also write back as you receive your testimonies. Some people are going to receive testimonies in the next 7days. AMEN!! Let’s endeavour to take this prayer chain seriously whilst using the tools I taught you. Also remember, please forgive everyone who has hurt you, if not your prayers may be hindered!! Not because that person is an Angel but for your own good, forgive them, release them. And don’t fight with anyone.

    God bless you all. Can’t wait for your testimonies. AMEN

  7. Prayer Chain
    Praise the Lord!! Angeline from Zimbabwe, in accordance with the Word of God in Matthew 18:19, I stand with you and agree with your prayer requests that before the end of this year, you will be blessed with a husband who will love you as Christ loves the church and even as you are waiting, the Lord will mould you to be the wife that God and your husband want you to be. A testimony is on its way coz nothing is too hard for our God. I believe with you that this indeed is your season. Behold our God is doing a new thing Hallelujah! AMEN!!

    1. I am Amelia in the UK.
    2. I am looking for a husband, a true steward of God, christ filled, patient, kind, loving, caring, someone who serves in his church, who pays tithes faithfully, who has faith is God, who believes and is passionate about the institution of marriage, hungry for the word of God, but very successful in his job, career and business, filled with uncommon wisdom, intelligent, articulate, presentable, well spoken, a strong desire for success in all areas of his life. Someone who will love/appreciate me, i can step into his life and contribute so much to it. Someone from a good close christian family. Someone with similar interests and passions with me and who has a good background, one i can appreciate. Someone who will bring out the best in me and we can partner together in our successful marriage ministry. AMEN.
    3. I want to meet him in the next 7days, here in London. AMEN.
    4. I want to be engaged before Sun-14-October-2012. AMEN. And we would do our introduction/engagement party on Saturday-29-Dec-2012. AMEN.
    5. My Church wedding shall be on Saturday-30-Nov-2013. AMEN.
    6. We shall be blessed with 4 kids, 2 boys, 2 girls. AMEN
    7. We shall live in Ikoyi, Lagos. AMEN
    8. The biggest testimony about our marriage is that it will be an inspiration and testimony to others. It shall draw people to Christ and it shall be the start of our marriage ministry!! It shall draw crowds to us asking how we did it, how we got such a befitting and perfect match. AMEN.
    9. Praying that my sister’s engagement will take place this month, her introduction next month and wedding on Saturday-10-November-2012 (10-11-12) AMEN!! I’m praying for healing upon my family, for success in my postgrad, a business and career breakthrough for myself. AMEN

    Thank you for your initial message Angeline, if not for your comment, I wouldn’t have though of the prayer chain, the word I got, may have fallen to the ground but your message reinforced what God was saying to me. You are right that this is our season! Oh yes, let’s keep this prayer chain going and pleas don’t forget to document your testimonies.

  8. You can see my example above, start with PRAYER CHAIN
    Then, agree with those above you, please quote Matthew 18:19.
    Then list your requests in the format above
    Then, you can add any comments or revelations you may have had. In your personal prayer time, keep praying for those people, right their names down and their specific dates and requests.

    God bless you all as partake in this awesome miracle God is about to bestow. I declare Isaiah 34:16 on everyone on this page, everyone who partakes in this prayer chain,

    Search the book of the Lord,
    and see what he will do.
    Not one of these birds and animals will be missing,
    and none will lack a mate,
    for the Lord has promised this.
    His Spirit will make it all come true.

    Before this week runs out, God will perfect your requests and before this year runs out, or in accordance with your schedule, God will provide your spouses, your healing, your pregnancies, business, promotion, jobs, houses, cars, licences, contracts, all that you wish for and MORE!!! AMEEEN

  9. mathew 18:19
    1. I am N’kunda from uganda
    2. I want my godly spouse to locate me before december 25 2012.
    3. My spouse should have :a lovely heart, Godly character, financially well off, tall, faithful to me and God, loves me, considerate, fun, humourous. And have good success in all things
    4. I want to be married next year june.
    5. I want God to be the centre of our relationship and our captain in our lives together.
    6.

  10. Prayer Chain
    Praise the Lord!! N’Kunda from Uganda, in accordance with the Word of God in Matthew 18:19, I stand with you and agree with your prayer requests that before the end of this year, Oh I say before 25 December 2012, your Godly spouse will locate you. AMEN.

    Oh, in the Name that is above every other name, I DECLARE that you will be blessed with a husband who will love you as Christ loves the church, he will have a lovely heart, be of Godly character, be faithful to both you his wife and to God his creator, considerate, fun, humorous and have great success in all things. Oh he will be a man made in God’s own image, fearfully and wonderfully made, tall and good-looking and financially flourishing. AMEN

    Even as you are waiting, the Lord will mould you to be the wife that God and your husband want you to be. A testimony is on its way because nothing is too hard for our God. This is your season. Oh, Behold our God is doing a new thing Hallelujah! AMEN!!

  11. Oh join us for more at http://www.princessofzion.wordpress.com
    Your testimony is near, oh it is HERE!! AMEN

  12. Amelia, 56, 57, The prayer suggestion is very good., but there is more to believing and receiving. You must add work to your faith. The devil realy has no power over the child of God who is seated with Jesus in heavenly places, far above devils, principality and power, Ephesians1:21. But if anyone not know your right, and also disobey GOD, the devil iwill trash the person down. It is not also not enough to put out the spirit husban/wif from your mind, you must use your MOUTH to command them to leave. Use it is written to chase them out as Jesus did to satan. Release the Blood of our covenant, Blood of Jesus against them. Anoint yourself and seal yourself up against them. When scriptures are quoted, let us know the verse and the Bible edition, if diferrent from KJV. It is also good to draw marriage calendar for yourself, but i dont believe that you can draw it for another person, except she gives you the permission to do so and/or gives you the calendar itself. I join my faith with all of you that your spouse will show up as you desire. Keep serving God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Your expectation shall not be cut off.Matthew6:33 Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  13. Am praying for children and end to miscarriages in Jesus name, Amen.

  14. Nenye, Be born again. Join a service group in your church to claim Exodus23:26.You shall not miscarry anymore. Be aware that you are created to be fruitful and multiply, Genesis1:28. Think and speak this verse daily, like this; I am blessed, I am created to be fruitful, to multiply and increase the earth. No power can overpower the power of the word. Keep speaking the word. In the name of Jesus, I join my faith with yours to break the power of miscarriage and we command it to stop and never come back again. We release the Blood of Jesus against it. Buy Supernatural Childbirth, read it and do what it says.Once you take in again, be taking the communion Flesh and communion Blood of Jesus, daily until you give birth. You will overcome. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  15. Nenye, In addition to the above, Study these verses of the scriptures, Luke22:15-20, John6:47-58, 1Corinthians11:17-34. Go to thif link too. https://www.prayersfire.com/?p=3343. God will give you more understanding. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  16. Angeline, N’Kunda and Nenye , we are praying for you all. It is well with you.

    I have published your prayer request on our prayer chain and we are praying for you. Your breakthrough is here. Just have a look and also pledge to pray for somebody else. Through the awesome channel of agreement prayers and giving, God is doing something new and awesome. AMEN.

    http://www.princessofzion.wordpress.com/new-prayer-chain/

    Margaret, God bless you! Spirit husband does NOT exist. Please show me the scripture where God or Jesus spoke about it and the remedy. It doesn’t exist. Besides, once you give your life to Christ, we are no longer under any curse or covenant again. 2 Corinthians 6:14-16, light and darkness can’t coexist in a being, neither can Christ with Belial. Spirt spouse is a teaching that is NOT scriptural. It is a trick of the devil. Please buy “SPIRITUAL WARFARE” by Pastor Chris Ojigbani and read it. it will set you free.

  17. Please Angeline and Nkunda, this is for you. ESPECIALLY whilst waiting on God for your spouse. This is your preparation for marriage.

    Read this post and put the principles into practise. http://www.princessofzion.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/are-you-ready/

    Also, use this remedy whilst waiting

    God the creator of the Heavens and the earth is even more concerned about your marriage, so do not worry. Be still and know that He is God.

    At the same time, release forgiveness to all who have hurt you. Not because of them but because of you, when you hold unforgiveness, bitterness or strife, your prayers can’t be answered. Forgive them all.

    Now, you must use your mind for good. Forget and rubbish anything you may have been taught about spirit husband/children, generational curses and other diabolical things. They are not in the Bible. Once you give your life to christ, no spirit, curse or covenant can harm you. It is not a prayer but a STATEMENT OF FACT! Believe it now!

    Also, beware of teachings about “spouse of covenant”. Nobody has one particular spouse destined to them. So, don’t listen to anyone who may tell you this or tell you that you have missed your spouse. It isn’t true. God also doesn’t choose spouses for people. He directs people to someone and it is the person’s responsibility to choose. I will compose a post about this later. But the only condition for marriage is that
    1- Your spouse be a Godly person i.e born again Christian.
    2- Both of you are equally yoked. Not every christian can marry. Marry one whose faith an mesh with yours For example, in some Churches, the men braid their hair, while in some Churches, the ladies must cover their hair, these two people can not marry for instance. Their faiths differ largely. So, marry someone on an equal footing to you.
    3- Make sure you like the person and can see yourself marrying them.
    4- Ensure you have peace within your spirit. Though, you choose your spouse, be 100% sure that you followed God’s direction. That is all. Don’t be fooled, waiting for “the one”, there is no such thing.

    Another thing I will ask you to do is to make a sacrificial seed or monthly partnership to a marriage ministry. There are many ministries/Churches that focus on marriage. Find a great one, one where the Grace of God is upon. WHY? Whenever you give to a ministry, you automatically partake in the SAME GRACE that is upon that ministry. E.g if you give your time or money to healing ministry, you will share in that same grace upon the ministry, therefore you will experience divine healing. I hope you understand that. There are many marriage ministries around, find one and give a sacrificial seed to them, or you can make monthly donations. It has worked for many, it will work for you. This is not a bribe, it is you saying Father, I know my time of harvest/marriage has come, thank You Lord. I recognise the good work you are doing through this particular ministry and so I give this amount, so others can be blessed. Father,as is your will, as I make this sacrifice, please help me to partake in that same Grace upon this ministry. AMEN. You can even volunteer at your Church’s marriage ministry and donate to them.
    These are some marriage ministries I love, for example.
    Love Dating and Marriage by Pastor Kingsley and Mildred Okonkwo of David’s Christian Centre
    Covenant Singles and Married Ministries by Pastor Chris Ojigbani

    Once you have done all that, keep praying to God and start picturing your husband, your wedding day, your children, everything. Please, people may shut you down or discourage you, don’t pay them any mind, they too will soon come and celebrate with you. Keep praying and imagining your big day and your Godly marriage. Make a vow to God that when your spouse comes you will honour God’s word and keep your marriage honourable and vow to Him that you will give the testimony everywhere. AMEN. Start praising God, start thanking him and start dancing. Before the year ends, we will hear of both your testimonies. AMEN!!

    Say this Prayer everyday

    Holy Father, You said that woman was made from the rib which was taken from man. Therefore

    I come to You now, asking for the man whom I was created for – a true steward of God. He shall leave his father and his mother and cleave unto me, and I will be his help meet.

    I thank You for a husband who will love me even as Christ also loved the church, and we shall be heirs together of the grace of life according to Your Word.

    O Lord my God, You said that the man is the image and glory of God. Therefore I come to You now, praising You for a husband who will nourish and cherish me and not be bitter against me.

    He will be blameless, vigilant, sober and apt to teach. He will be patient, respectful, of good behavior, and will hold the mystery of faith in a pure conscience. He will be a just, holy,
temperate man – holding fast the faithful Word as he has been taught.

    I thank You for a husband who is not covetous, self-willed, easily angered or lifted up with pride. And because he rules well his own house, our children and I will be in subjection to him according to Your Word.

    Abba, Father, You said that the head of every man is Christ and he who walks in uprightness fears the Lord. Therefore I come to You now, thanking You for a husband who will give honor unto me, as unto the weaker vessel, so that his prayers will not be hindered.

    My husband is blessed, therefore he does not walk in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stand in the way of sinners, nor sit in the seat of the scornful. His delight is in the law of the Lord; and in that law, he meditates day and night. He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water that brings forth his fruit in his season. His leaf also shall not wither, and whatsoever he does shall prosper.

    I thank You for a trustworthy husband who will please me and render due benevolence unto me according to Your Word.

    God Most High, You said that a wife should not depart from her husband and a husband should not put away his wife. Therefore I come to You now, vowing that when my husband is bound unto me, he will not seek to be loosed. I will hold my beloved, whom my soul loves, and I will not let him go. According to Your Word, I decree and declare that whom God has joined together, no man shall put asunder.

    I ask this in the name of Jesus Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

  18. Hello Nenye, this if for you Ma.

    Dear Nenye, you are a Princess of Zion,

    Be fruitful and multiply. Genesis 1:28 God himself commanded it to be so. He wants you to bring forth a child even more than you want. Oh, see what our God says in Exodus 23:26. There will be no miscarriages or infertility in your land, and I will give you long, full lives.

    Numbers 23:19 says God is not a man, so he does not lie. He is not human, so he does not change his mind. Has he ever spoken and failed to act? Has he ever promised and not carried it through?

    Oh Nenye, but God has promised and he can not take it back. God has never failed and he will NEVER fail. Oh Princess of Zion, I join my faith with your’s and stand on His promises and in accordance with His very own word in Matthew 18:19, I say that before the year runs out, the Lord shall bless you with a pregnancy. AMEN. Oh Nenye, this time next year, you will be dedicating your twins. AMEN! Oh, they shall be healthy, wonderful babies. Your pregnancy shall be smooth and blessed. AMEN. The Lord shall provide all that you need to raise your Godly seeds. AMEN

    At the same time, release forgiveness to all who have hurt you. Not because of them but because of you, when you hold unforgiveness, bitterness or strife, your prayers can’t be answered. Forgive them all.

    I think you need to study the story of Hannah, the mother of Samuel. Barren for many years but after she prayed this prayer, Oh the God of Abraham had mercy on her.
    Hannah’s prayer

    “Dear God, if You will only give me a son, I will give him back to You, to serve You all his days.” She prayed so hard her mouth moved, but no words came out. A priest asked if she was drunk. “No,” she said. “I’m pouring my heart out to God.”

    Nenye, make a vow to God that the child He will put in your womb will be a Samuel of this generation. You will raise the child in the Godly way. You will give him to Christ. Make the vow.

    Also read this book by Pastor Leke Sanusi of RCCG Victory House UK. http://www.rccgvictoryhouse.com/Products_Detail.php?ProductID=7

    Another thing I will ask you to do is to make a sacrificial seed or monthly partnership to a ministry that caters for those praying for the fruit of the womb. There are many ministries/Churches that focus on this. Find a great one, one where the Grace of God is upon. WHY? Whenever you give to a ministry, you automatically partake in the SAME GRACE that is upon that ministry. E.g if you give your time or money to healing ministry, you will share in that same grace upon the ministry, therefore you will experience divine healing. I hope you understand that. There are many such ministries around, find one and give a sacrificial seed to them, or you can make monthly donations. It has worked for many, it will work for you. This is not a bribe, it is you saying Father, I know my time of harvest/fruitfullness has come, thank You Lord. I recognise the good work you are doing through this particular ministry and so I give this amount, so others can be blessed. Father,as is your will, as I make this sacrifice, please help me to partake in that same Grace upon this ministry. AMEN. You can even volunteer at your Church’s ministry for those waiting on the Lord and donate to them.
    Once you have done all that, keep praying to God and start picturing your children, their faces, tiny clothes, the school they will go to, the Godly names you will give them. Please, people may shut you down or discourage you, don’t pay them any mind, they too will soon come and celebrate with you. Keep praying and imagining your big day and your Godly children. Make a vow to God that when your children come you will honour God’s word and raise them in accordance with His will and vow to Him that you will give the testimony everywhere. AMEN. Start praising God, start thanking him and start dancing. Before the year ends, we will hear your testimonies. AMEN!!

    You can also join our prayer chain at my website wwwdotprincessofziondotwordpress.com

  19. Margaret A. | July 5, 2012 at 6:10 am | Reply

    Princess of Zion, You and yours are blessed. To say spirit spouses do not exist is to Satan, devils, and spiritual attacks do not exist. They exist, but anyone who is born again is delivered from them, Colossians1:13. But it does not stop there. When you got to UK, you studied their rules and regulations and live by them. This should also apply to anyone who is born again. He should sit down with the Holy Bible and live by it.
    The remedy of not being hurt by dark forces is in the entire Holy Bible. Some are here, Isaiah11:9, Matthew11:28-30, Matthew6:33, Psalm34:10, Deuteronomy4:26, 2Chronicles14:4. Every Christian should sit down to study and know what God says, live by the Word. I pray that God gives us more understanding. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  20. Dear all, especially Margaret A: Please read the truth about spirit husbands and wives.
    Join us for more here- http://www.princessofzion.wordpress.com
    God bless you all. AMEN.

    Fasten your seat belt, this is going to be short, different and liberating! Get ready to shout Hallelujah! If you’re African, I’m sure this may be an usual message for you; contrary to what is preached by many Churches. However, I am here to tell you that no such thing exists. Read your Bible! I too once fell for such, but hey there is a day of redemption for all. Today is yours. AMEN.

    Do spirit husbands or wives exist?

    NO! I dare you to read the Bible from Genesis to Revelation; there is not a single verse that tells us about spirit husband or wife. It is very annoying and sad that Pastor and men of God teach people about spirit spouses; even as sermons. It does not exist. People that teach this doctrine use a particular Bible passage to back up their wrong teaching. It is found in Genesis 6:1-4

    However, look at what Jesus Christ says in Mark 12:18-25

    “For when they shall rise from the dead, the neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven”….

    This confirms that angels do not get married. Angels are spirits, and spirits don’t get married. Remember that demon spirits were once angels; they are fallen angels and as such they do not get married. The Bible refers to demon spirits as angels

    2 Peter 2:4

    For if God spared not the angels that sinned, but cast them down to hell, and delivered them into chains of darkness, to be reserved unto judgement.

    Demon spirits are referred to as angels in the passage above; they are just angels that sinned. Jesus Christ himself said that at the resurrection there would be no marriages because we would all be like angels, in other words they do not get married. Now, tell me if angels don’t get married and demon spirits are angels, who then are these spiritual husbands and wives? NOBODY! There is no such thing.

    Can a Christian have an evil spirit?

    Spirits do NOT get married, but let’s even assume that they did, what has light got to do with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14). Please tell me what a demon spirit will be doing or associating with a child of the Most High God? What communion hath light with darkness or Christ with Belial?

    It is just not possible for a demon spirit to get married to a child of God. Marriage makes the couple become one. How then can an evil spirit become one with a child of God? The Bible says that he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit with Him (1 Corinthians 6:17). If a chid of God is one spirit with the Lord, how then can he or she become one with an evil spirit? How can someone that is joined with the Holy Spirit be joined with an evil spirit at the same time? Don’t be deceived by such tricks.

    A Christian can’t be possessed by any kind of evil spirit. Spirit spouses do NOT exist but even if they did, no christian can have a spirit husband or wife or serpentine spirit, marine spirit or any other evil spirit. It is IMPOSSIBLE! The Bible says that the body of every Christian is the temple of the Holy Spirit that lives in him (1 Corinthians 6:19). If the Holy Spirit lives in the body of a Christian, all the spirit spouse, ask the Holy Spirit to move along, so he can enter the body of the Christian? NO, it is not possible.

    Can a spirit indulge in sex?

    Spirits are beings without any shape or form. They do not have physical bodies (Luke 24:39). This explains why evil spirits look for physical bodies to perpetuate evil. If spirits, don’t have their own physical bodies, they don’t need to possess anyone before doing evil. They had no body, therefore no physical body part such as head, hand, leg or sexual organ. If they don’t have sexual organs, how can they indulge in sex? Spirits don’t indulge in sex.

    What about spirit children? Do they exist?

    Again, NO! There is nothing like a spirit child. Apart from the fact that spirits don’t indulge in sex, they don’t have wombs and can NEVER be pregnant. They don’t give birth to other spirits. Spirits don’t die (Luke 20:36) and they don’t procreate. It is absurd for anyone to believe that there is anything like spirit children. They don’t exist. If there are spirit children, does it mean there are spirit boys and girls who grow up to become spirit men and women? That is utter rubbish! There is absolutely NOTHING like a spirit child, husband or wife.

    Does sex in the dream signify spiritual attack?

    There is no place where the Scripture tells us that sex in the dream means spiritual attack. Some people teach their personal doctrines instead of preaching Scriptural doctrines. In Christianity, we ought to teach only things from the Bible even if they contradict our views or what we’ve learned. Sex in the dream does not mean spiritual attack and it does not mean you have a spirit spouse. Spirits don’t have physical bodies or sexual organs and as such they can NEVER have sex; how much more with a Christian. If sex in the dream does not mean spiritual attack, why then do some people have sex in the dream?

    A- Abstinence- Long periods without sex can cause a person to thing or dream of sex. A dream is a series of mental images or emotions that occur during sleep. Once a person’s thoughts dwell on sex, he or she may dream of having sex.

    B- Meeting someone you are attracted to or being around them may make you think or dream of sex.

    C- When a person watches TV or other media that depicts sexual activity, it may arouse their emotions and lead to sexual dreams.

    D- When a person corrupts their own mind. This self corruption occurs during a prayer session against spirit husband/wife. When a person prays against spirit husband/wife, it is an indication that the person believes they have a spirit spouse. You then suffer according to your teaching of spirit husband/wife because whatever a person believes happens in his/her life.

    The solution to the trick of spirit husband/wife

    The simple solution to the trick is the realisation and declaration that you do not have one. Don’t engage in any prayers or divorce of spirit husband. Praying against one is not the solution because a person divorcing a spirit spouse is an indication that the person believes he has it. Only married people can divorce. So such prayer can take you deeper into your captivity because whatever a person believes is what happens in his life.

    What sets you free from the trick of spirit spouse is knowing that you are NOT married to any spirit. Please understand that the ONLY reason people experience the problems of spirit husband/wife is because they truly believe that they have a spirit spouse (As a man thinketh, so he is ..Proverbs 23:7). As both a Psychologist and born again Christian, I can tell you that it is all in the mind, those people have been told that as a result of spirit husband they suffer afflictions, so they believe the must suffer, that is why they suffer, they keep having the sexual dreams and so they keep believing they have spirit spouses and that is why they keep suffering.

    Apart from the fact that spirit husbands, wives and children do NOT exist, no Christian can have an evil spirit. If you are a Christian, do not be deceived. You cannot have an evil spirit. It is not a prayer point but a statement of fact.

    I hope you have been delivered! Renew your mind and watch your life come back together. AMEN

  21. Princcess of Zion, We are not in a debate forum, neither are we in any competiton. We are in a spiritual forum, seeking for solution to challenges of life. We learn more of spiritual things daily. I have replied you ones that if satan, devils and spiritual attack do not exist, then spirit spouses do not exist. Let me give you two testimonies: 1. A young lady was under such toments, even with pants, 4pants, yet the man was going to her. Not until some pastors went to anoint her room and break his power, before the evil visitor stopped. He then went to her in broad day light to say, “Now I know that you are more powerful,( than the tomentor).” The man went to the farm and died that day. From henceforth, the life of the sister began to have meaning. 2). A landlady was also tomenting his tenant, thinking that the tenant would not know her, but the tenant recognised her and had to move out of the house. Please readers, do not underrate the power of the enemy, develop the power you are given, John1:12, Luke10:19 and many more, then the power of the enemy will not have power over you. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  22. I cant get enough words to express my gratitude for this man of God elisha goodman.i learnt your book of ‘passion prayer of Jesus the christ’ and it really made me to know and understad spiritual world.I cant hesitate to join this website of christian single dating coz am trusting God 4 a husband .

  23. thank God for His grace will never take me where His Glory can not keep me,i join the prayer chain in praying for my spouse in Christ Jesus. i am praying for a God fearing man, a loving (for love is patient,it sees no wrong,it does not do what it wants..), caring, patient,supportive, handsome,business minded, a man with a vision,finacialy stable, the man who will never have other women outside the marriage because our bodies are the temple of God. i pray that i meet with my spouse by July 2012 and we get engaged this year in December and get married in April 2012. i pray that God blesses us with four children 2 boys and 2 girls in only 2 pregnances.i believe God for his word that He will never lie,for every thing is possible to him who believes, and His grace is sufficient for us all.

  24. Pamela, be it unto you according to your faith. However check your calendar again and see if there is no mix-up, especially the date of marriage. You wrote April 2012. We have April 2013 ahead of us. God will help you. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  25. Athieno Eunice | August 1, 2012 at 1:19 pm | Reply

    praise the lord. i have worked almost 9 years and indeed i have not done any development. secondly i pray for a rightful partner and whenever i get someone he claims to be serious but after some thin like 2- 3 months he turns against me and does not fail like even seeing calls. my dear sisters and brothers please pray with so that i get a good job and marriage. am not really happy at all.

    God bless you all.

  26. Athieno Eunice, As we all continue to pray for you, You must also continue to pray for yourself. There is need to uproot the unwanted from your life and then plant the things you want, with your mouth and in the name of Jesus and by the Blood of Jesus. Christianity is not a part time religion, it is a full time one. In fact, it is business, Luke2:49, Matthew6:33. When you are comsumed with God, things will fall into their places. Whenext a man comes to you, thank God for him, always pray together and let him know your view about God, that God take first place in your life.. Break all the power of darkness that may be sending away men from you. You will overcome this challenge in the name of Jesus. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  27. Thankyou Margaret/ Amelia.

    I join the prayer chain believing God for a Godly Spouse and wedding next year-April 2013. I iwll live in Switzerland or Canada.

  28. I found this site by accident and Praise God I am now determine to carry on praying for my Godly Spouse, I was about to give up. I know I too will be testifying soon. Let us continue to pray for each other in Jesus name.

  29. Barbara, Never you give up on God and do not time Him. Only God can do the impossible for you. Keep PUSHing (Pray Until Something Happens=PUSH). Include praising and thanksgiving in your communication with God. He will soon answer your prayers. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  30. U av really inspired me ,am so glad ther ar ladies like me out ther my name is Rita from Nigeria,i am so happy for the prayer chain,it has help me alot especially at dis point of my life wen i am tryin to stay in faith….for years i av been involved in church activities and refuse to date the way the world dos,i made up my mind to wait on the lord but it seems the godly man i prayed for is not forth comin,i pray God give me the grace to be patient

  31. Rita, there is a great difference between Knowing God and doing the work of God. Our personal relationship matters a lot. God values our relationship with Him a lot. My above comment is also of importance to you. In addition, God is preparing that special man for you, and He will surface when it is time. Keep praying and praising God. He is at work. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  32. I totally agree with amelia and princess of zion, its all according to what you believe. The battle is all in the mind, the sad things is many people will reject this truth and continue to in the same way…

  33. Wow! This is really exciting and admonishing. Have learnt quiet a lot from this subject under Discussion. I wana take this opportunity to thank all that have contributed, and perhaps drop my opinion too. Well, its not a Predicament against other who do not believe in Spiritual Husbands and the like, but rather its just the truth I know I want 2 share as I 100% agree with Margaret A. First and foremost, being a devoted born again christian, I have by God’s Grace had an opportunity to Listen to Testimonies of how Christians have been oppressed because of being ignorant, or merely ignoring the evil that surrounds them. “You ill know the truth and the truth shall set you free. Am using Oppression because I too understand a born again christian believer can’t be possessed unless purposely allowed by God like in the case of king Saul (1 Samuel 16: 14) Ephesians 6:11-18 talks about the Pricipalities, wicked RULERS e.t.c. RULERS are there to Rule peoples lives, and not neccesarily lives of Pagans, but as their Mission, they wana rule lives of US (so called believers) When a christian starts compromizing with his or her christian values, he/she can give enough room for the devil to start ruling in his/her life, Relationships/ Marriage inclusive. Being born again is not guarantee enough for the devil to stop oppressing One. One also has a major role to Play by Resist him, that’s when he flees (James 4:4-7) How can you resist the devil? By simply knowing his devices, tactics, points of entry. People Perish for Lack of knowledge. Brushing aside the issue that there are No SPIRITUAL HUSBANDS and the Like is being ignorant and gives the devil an upper hand in people’s lives. Secondly, there’s REMAR and KYLOS Words of God, Certain things need not only to be Read for one to believe, God Speaks even today to Reveal Hidden things when we Call unto him (Jeremiah 33:3) If As a Christian I can only and solely go by What the Bible has written, then I’ll be limited in my Christian living, and I will definatly hear little from God’s REMAR word. And if that be the case I may also be forced to Say, there’s no Such Thing in the Bible As’ SOW A SEED’ from Genesis to Revelations, have never come across any portion of scripture where one was asked to sow a seed for them to have a breakthrough apart from Maclachi’s TITHE. Anyway, Let’s know the devil is busy trying to destroy our Dreams, Let’s rise up and destroy him before he takes full control. God has never witheld any Good thing from those who diligently seek him. He gives us our hearts desires, but first of all let’s seek him diligently (Mathew 6:33/Psalm 37:4-5/25). Singles Like Me, ALL THE BEST and God Bless.

  34. Ken, Every believer needs this Bible verse, Romans7:4 .May the Holy Spirit expand it to us. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  35. Hello, I stand to be corrected but there is mention of spiritual husbands in the Bible.In Genesis 6, the spirits(the sons of God) saw that the daughters of men were beautiful, and they married any of them they chose. Do not be diverted. Christian Marriage is one of the things the devil hates most after your salvation. If your marriage is not healthy, then you end up being sad and walking in defeat. The devil will use any weapon. But he is the master of deception. Do not ignore sex in the dream or dismiss it.! Keep firing against the enemy. the devil is a liar

  36. Lee, Thank you for this insight. What is written is written…Luke10:26. There is no wisdom nor understanding nor counsel against the LORD. Proverbs21:30. I have written much about the issue of spirit husband, and I do not feel like going into it again. It is very dangerous to ignore what is written in the Bible and wave it aside. We should always ask the Holy Spirit to teach us what we read. Let me digress a little. A woman boasted that she had read through the Bible five times, yet she knew not what to do when her son was sick apart from taking him to the hospital. God will help us. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  37. Prayer Chain
    Praise the Lord!! I am Josephine from Kenya. In accordance with the Word of God in Matthew 18:19,
    1. I am Josephine from Kenya
    2. I am looking for a husband, a true steward of God, christ filled, patient, kind and. He should serve in the praise and worship ministry, i love praise and worship, we should sing together to praise God. He should pay his tithes and be Faithful to God, respect the institution of marriage, He should be goal oriented and very successful in his carrer or business, very intelligent and filled with God’s wisdom. he should love and appreciate his wife and children, very prayerful for his family and community and should come from a good christian background. AMEN.
    3. I want to meet him in the next 7days, in Nairobi Kenya. AMEN.
    4. I want to be engaged before during the Easter Holiday of 2012 AMEN.
    5. My Church wedding shall be in August-2013. AMEN.
    6. We shall be blessed with 4 kids, 2 boys, 2 girls. AMEN
    7. We shall live in Nairobi Kenya AMEN
    8. The biggest testimony about our marriage is that it will be an inspiration and testimony to others. It shall draw people to Christ and it shall be the start of our ministry in praise and worship. AMEN.
    9. Praying that i get a well paying job and clear all my debts by December 2012. I pray that God will convert my drunken father and bring him back to his house by end of Dec 2012. I pray that God will use me as a vessel to raise the orphaned children in the society in Jesus name and that God will provide the Finances to assist me complete my degree course by April 2013. AMEN

    Thanking God that i found you and found this prayer chain. I pray for all the people on this prayer chain that all the desires of their hearts will be fulfilled in Jesus name. AMEN.

  38. Prayer Chain.
    Greetings in the name of Jesus Christ. who is the same yesterday, today and forever. Amen
    1. Jenethe N.M 33 years old.
    2. I am Looking for a God Fearing Spouse. Must be very loving, towards me and our children. Must worship God in Spirit and truth.
    3. I want to meet him in Walvis Bay – Namibia during December holiday 2012 before Christmas.
    4. I want to be Engaged by/on or before my birth day 18 June 2013 in the name of Jesus. Amen
    5. Our Wedding day 25 December 2013 in the name of Jesus.
    6. Blessed with 4 Kids, 2xSet of twins.
    7. We will live in Windhoek -Namibia
    8. Wow, it will be for the Glory of God. i will put the Devil to Shame for Giving me Blocked Tubes and i will Glorify God’s Name for Finding a Godly Spouse and having Children of my own.
    9. Pray for my Debts to be cleared by end of this year 2012. To Finish all projects before end of the Year 2012. Pray for me to study 2013 for my degree in business management. and Pray for me to buy the car i so desire Polo. Amen
    10. If your prayer is not for a spouse, state whatever restoration you need, healing, prosperity, job, academics, fruit of the womb, mention whatever.

    Thanking God that i found you and found this prayer chain. I pray for all the people on this prayer chain that all the desires of their hearts will be fulfilled in Jesus name. AMEN.

  39. What a great privilege to stumble on this website. Glory to God! May God help us all in all we do.

    God is able!!

  40. dear prayer warior.thank you.i found this site.please pray that my request well answer.my name is JOSIE D. I come fr.phillipines.and now iam here in usa.thank god my my boss brought me here.iam praying that god will find me agodly husband.nextyear by dec25,1913.he must be a single, never married,love the lord ,and serve god.and we have to get marrried in my home in philippines.and must be aloving husband.and love me ,and understand me. because i pray to god iwill love him too.i never.had a boy friend.iam praying that god will find for me ages 56.or up.and he must understand me for who iam.iam godly person.bless you.

  41. Josie, There is nothing too hard for God. Just on Monday, December9, I heard the testimony of a sister,52, who maried a brother,56. Somebody introduced them and they fell in love on telephone, countries apart. Both were never married. God is still at work, making our dreams come true.. You need to tell people your age, plus few things like height and education background. God can do it. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  42. thank you again,my name is josie.icome fr, philippines.iam 56yrs old.i never had any boy friend,iam very shy.i nevergo out for any thing. because iwas working as domestic servants.in hongkong,i do everything take care of many people.including my family..thats why iwas only high sch,graduate.because i was helping my parents,sister and brother send them to colloge.and i am so proud now because they are all have family,and iam only one in my family is single.but i never regret, because i become aborn again christian..and my 2adapted children they are finish ther college.and now they are looking for a job.thats why i need help from god. i need a godly husband.because iam alone.what ever gods wants for me iwell gloryfy him ,and iwell serve him. .in jesus name amen.

  43. Josie Now that you are born again, you should know your position in Jesus Christ. Start to read your Bible to discover what God has for you in this life and in the life to come. For every woman created by God, He also created a man to marry her. Genesis2:18. God does not want us to be alone, He will surely give you a Godly husband. You shall have your own children. You are the blessed of the Lord and you shall be fruitful, Genesis1:28. God will perfect that which concerns you. Helping others is your ministry, but do not do it to forget to love yourself. The first and great commandment is to love God; the second is love your neighbour as you love yourself. Matt22:37-40. There is no offence in loving yourself, first before you love others. Having loved others first, keep loving them for It is by love that all laws are fulfilled. Be confident that God will give you a good husband.Go to church, join a service group and program your free days to when you have meetings in church. If you stay indoor, your chance of meeting people is greatly limited. Pray for the help of God always. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  44. prayer chain
    praise GOD,Josie from philippiness in accordance with the word of GOD in mathew 18v19;i stand with u & agree wth ur prayer requests that before the end of this year,you ll be blessed with a husband who will love you as christ loves the church & even as you are waiting,the lord ll mould you to be the wife that GOD & your husband want you to be.a testmony is on its way because nothing is too hard for our GOD,this is your season .OH BEHOLD OUR GOD IS DOING A NEW THING!!!!
    ALLELUJAH!!!!!!!!!
    1′ my name is Gift from Republic of Malawi,
    2′ am looking for a GODLY husband a true steward of GOD,patient,kind,caring,who has faith in GOD,fun,humourous
    successful in his job,busness & career.strong desire in all areas of life.someone who will love & appreciate me & will ve simillar interest.
    3′ I want to meet him within this month
    4′ I want to be engaged before 12th of january & would do our introduction party on 23rd of february
    4′ my church wedding shall be on saturday 6 july.
    5′ we shall be blessed with 4 kids 2boys & 2 girls.

  45. Gift, Be it unto you according to your FAITH. With God, all things are possible.The power of God with the power of your faith in God and love of God in your heart will make things happen for you. Ephessians3:20. Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  46. thank you. god bless you for what you done. for all your prayers to us.

  47. Thank you margret A for sharing the word of GOD,ve learnt alot through this web.& am encouraged & I STRONGLY believe that the GOD of isaac,abraham,elisha is the GOD of answeres he answeres our prayers with fire.& AM VERY SURE THAT 2013 is my year.GOD BLESS YOU!

  48. Gift, Amen! Amen!! Amen!!! Glory to God. Jesus is Lord!

  49. As far as the Bible states, broadly speaking, God does speak about spirit husbands. Doesn’t God say many times that “I shall be your husband”? Sorry, I didn’t memorise the scriptures (Isaiah?). God is spirit. Isn’t the whole spiritual concept of Christianity based on the bride and bridegroom. Jesus is the bridegroom and we, his church are his bride?All spiritually speaking. Don’t we say to singles that God is our husband until we marry? God is spirit. Finally, Jesus was born of a “spirit husband”. The Holy Ghost impregnated Mary. Just my 10 cents.

  50. prayer chain
    praise GOD,Gift from Malawi in accordance with the word of GOD in Mathew 18v19; i too stand with you and agree with your prayer requests that you will celebrate Gods gift marriage on 6 July. and that you will be blessed with a husband who will love you as Christ loves the church & even as you are waiting,the lord to mold you to be the wife that GOD & your husband want you to be.a testimony is on its way because nothing is too hard for our GOD,this is your season .OH BEHOLD OUR GOD IS DOING A NEW THING!!!!
    HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!!!

    1′ My name is Veronica from Zimbabwe
    2′ I too am believing God for a man who is truly after Gods heart and who loves the Lord as I do and with whom I will continue to walk the path of righteousness. My partner in my walk in Christ. Someone I can pray with always. Amen!
    My Husband will have the love of Jesus in his heart, he will be kind and compassionate, understanding, respectful and will love me as Christ loves the Church.
    He will come form a God-fearing family and will never have been married. He will be successful and highly favored in his career / business and He will have a good sense of humor and will enjoy the great outdoors. Amen!
    3′ I have faith I will meet my God ordained partner before 5 August 2013 and that he will come looking for me! Amen!
    4′ I want to be engaged before 25 December 2013 and our beautiful wedding will be held by faith, on 6 September 2014 (I want a summer garden wedding, a private and intimate affair!) Amen!
    4′ He will share the same visions and hopes four our marriage as I do.
    5′ He will love children. Amen! And we will be blessed with one set of twins (girl and boy) and another girl! Amen!

    I thank you Lord that my testimony is here! Amen! Thank you Lord for your grace and thank you Lord for this wonderful gift! Nothing is impossible for the Power of God that lives in me!! Amen!

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