Marriage Prayer Points For Finding Godly Spouse – Elisha Goodman

marriageMy Dear good friend whom I met in 2005 after the he shared the miracle story of that anonymous Sudanese prayer warrior on Ezinearticles dot com, Elisha Goodman, has a powerful ministry of prayers particularly the midnight dimension which we shared together. I gleaned this prayer points for Christian singles who desired a godly partner in marriage from his recent article. Read on and pray along:

“There is a big hidden secret behind most people’s inability to find a God fearing spouse. It is such a deep secret that even those who are supposed to be happily married are finding that there’s no honey or spice in their relationship at all.”

“The good news I’m going to share with you here is so powerful that you’ll begin to attract a God fearing partner in a short period of time.”

The Secret Uncovered

Most people you see, whether physically married or not, are already married in the spirit realm. Yes, they are married to invisible sexual spirits which can molest and torment them, and make their life a living hell.

This why some people find themselves having sex in the dream.

Sexual spirits that attack women are called incubus and those that attack men are called succubus.

This problem of evil spiritual marriage is a universal one. Most people are suffering in silence.

Once a spiritual marriage is in place, invisible forces will neutralize anything you pray to find the spouse of your dreams – on legal grounds.

And if this type of invisible marriage is in place, it will be difficult to “meet” or keep the right partner.

And that’s only the tip of the iceberg.

Life can become really frustrating to anyone who has an evil spiritual relationship in place without knowing it.


Because they have the power to control, rule, dominate, abuse, manipulate, plunder and dispossess one of every good thing earmarked for him by God.

The main purpose of a spiritual marriage is to convert the victim’s life to a garbage dump. It imprisons one’s marital, social, business, financial and spiritual life.

It makes progress impossible, no matter how many positive confessions you make.

Thankfully, Jesus has given us a way out of this dilemma.

The solution

There’s a powerful 3-part prayer that you can use to deal with this situation and ensure that you begin to attract a God fearing, loving and caring spouse… in as little as 30 days.

Those who have prayed these prayers seriously in the past have even reported breakthroughs in as little as 10 days!

(Please note that your results will vary, depending on your spiritual maturity and persistence in prayer.)

Here are the 2 big things you have to be aware of if you want this to work for you.

  • Make sure you are not having sex outside marriage
  • Repent of all past sexual sins, one by one, and ask for forgiveness

Once you’ve done that, then go through these steps and pray the prayer below.

It is part I and it should be prayed for 3 days.

How to Pray

  • Sit comfortably or walk about … DON’T kneel
  • Focus your attention on the Lord Jesus Christ
  • Avoid distractions… if they come don’t concentrate on them
  • Spend a few minutes in praises to the Lord
  • Confess any known sin to the Lord, one by one
  • Ask the Lord to bring to your memory the legal ground or the open doors that forces of spiritual wickedness are using to gain entrance into your life
  • Enter into this period with aggressive prayer. ALL prayer points are to be prayed repeatedly, with determined aggression.

(Please Note: If you want to see quick and dramatic results, add fasting to your prayers – unless you are medically unable to fast… and pray at the MIDNIGHT HOUR)

The Prayers

This is the foundational prayer. It consists of 10 steps.

Step ONE

Start with praise worship. Praise God and worship him with songs.

Step TWO

Confess out LOUD these Scriptures promising deliverance.

Luke 10:19: Behold I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy; and nothing shall by any means hurt you.

Obadiah 17: But upon mount Zion shall be deliverance, and there shall be holiness; and the house of Jacob shall possess their possessions.

Ephesians 1:7: In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace.

Romans 16:20: And the God of peace shall bruise Satan under your feet shortly. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you. Amen.

Colossians 2:14,15: Blotting out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us, which was contrary to us, and took it out of the way, nailing it to his cross. And having spoiled principalities and powers, he made a show of them openly, triumphing over them in it.

Galatians 3:13,14: Christ had redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree:
That the blessing of Abraham might come on the gentiles through Jesus Christ; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.

2 Timothy 4:18: And the Lord shall deliver me from every evil work, and will preserve me unto his heavenly kingdom: to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.

Revelation 12:11: And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony: and they loved not their lives unto the death.


Confess your sins to the LORD and ask for His forgiveness. Confess the sins of your ancestors and ask for His forgiveness. Ask Him to wash you clean with the blood of Jesus. Receive His forgiveness with thanks. And declare that you forgive yourself as well.


Break covenants and curses to destroy their legal hold by praying these simple prayers (don’t be fooled by their simplicity… they’re deadly and devastating in action!). Spend time on them.

(a) I break any curse against my marriage in Jesus’ name

(b) I break any covenant against my marriage in Jesus’ name


Bind all the spirits associated with those covenants and curses, like this:

“I bind all the spirits attached or connected to the covenants and
curses I have just broken in the name of Jesus.”

Step SIX

Lay one hand on your head and the other on your stomach or navel and begin to pray like this:

“Holy Ghost fire, burn from the top of my head to the soles of my feet in the name of Jesus.”

After a while, begin to mention every organ of your body, one by one, like this:

“Holy Ghost fire, burn and purge my heart”

“Holy Ghost fire, burn and purge my kidney”

“Holy Ghost fire, burn and purge my womb”

“Holy Ghost fire, burn and purge my liver”

etc, etc,… in the name of Jesus.

Please don’t be in a rush here. Pray until you actually begin to feel the heat. Because the fire will actually come if you concentrate on this with your body, soul and spirit.


Begin to saturate yourself with the blood of Jesus, like this:

(a) Blood of Jesus, enter into my spirit, soul and body in Jesus’ name.

(b) I drink the blood of Jesus.


It is now that you are able to demand firmly, in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, that any spirit that is NOT of God should leave you immediately. You demand it forcefully, like this:

“In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I come against all you hidden spirit spouse and I bind your activities in my life. You can no longer hide below the surface because I now recognize what you’ve been doing; release me in the name of Jesus.”

After saying this, you STOP TALKING; open your mouth and nose and take three to seven deep breaths and expel them forcefully through your mouth and nose. Don’t be surprised if you see strange things begin to happen.

THIS IS A CRITICAL STAGE! Repeat it again and again; issue the command, and repeat the breathing in and out.


When you’ve finished with step 8, ask for a fresh infilling of the Holy Spirit, like this:

“Holy Spirit, fill me afresh to overflowing in the name of Jesus.”

Step TEN

Close the session with high praises to the LORD. Give Him thanks. Before you finally wind down, pray these 3 important prayer points:

(1) O Lord, surround me with your walls of fire in Jesus’ name.

(2) Let the blood of Jesus cover me now in Jesus’ name.

(3) O Lord, surround me with your angels day and night in Jesus’ name.

This prayer could take up to 1 hour.

Be blessed as you pray.

51 Comments on "Marriage Prayer Points For Finding Godly Spouse – Elisha Goodman"

  1. Dear Elisha,

    I have been married for the past ten and half years with two kids, 9 years and 1 1/2 years respectively. I am a victim of dreaming having sex in the dream, sometimes being kissed in the dream. The other time almost the whole night the same dream of sex and the following day I developed some irretation on my private part. it went on for months and I have prayed and fasted. I was so ashamed to tell my husband. Our relationship is not very smooth so to say. He is too busy for me.

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  3. Dear Elisha,

    May God bless you for posting this valuable secrets how to praying for finding a Godly spouse. I have been praying arround 5 or 6 years but not in this way. I started praying yesterday and I believe God will help me and give strength. I have choosen the midnight as per your advice. But, pls tell me how to handle the prayer I mean should I have to pray the prayers each night repeatdy until my request answered by God or one day half part and another day half part pls help me on this. May God Bless you.

  4. Benjamin Mireku Ayeh | November 5, 2009 at 11:08 am | Reply

    this is very good and it will be a lot of help to the unmarried and couples as well God richly bless you

  5. Nsiime Rosette | November 6, 2009 at 1:06 pm | Reply

    A request to break a family curse of marriage.

  6. i always dream having sex with different man some of them i even know. i havent even sound the right partner and my husband have left me for no reason at all. help me break this bondage and i hope this prayer will help me a lot. should i do it repeatedly every night until things change. how do i go about it every day

  7. Pray for me i hav that problem,i want to get a Godly husband.i used to have sex in the dream although it stopped but i dream am back at my husbands house of whom we separated now 5yrs that we are sleeping on 1bed but not talking.please pray for me

  8. please do not show my email address and my name, it always appear in the comment. please remove it. thank you God bless you.

  9. thanks you very much but the email adress is still showing please delete it too.

  10. Dear Elisha,

    Thank you for these prayer points. I have been praying for marriage for 5 years, but not like this. Now I prayed the prayers aggressively as you said. And God reavled to me my marriage partner with in 20 days after my prayer. Thank you and may God bless you.

  11. FAITH is the key, fire violent prayers in faith and in 2010 you will get your spouse. I started 2009 single, and I am ending it married, To God be the glory!! I decreed from day 1, and got crazy with faith, God did it, and did it very very fast. God is waiting on you to use the resources He has given you, to pray in your spouse. Marriage is a good thing, and God has said “No good thing will He withhold from us”.

  12. Dear Elisha

    I have come across this website , there good prayer points please send me more prayer points for marriage, healing and financial break through.Am bleiving God for my marriange and promotion on my employment.

  13. Helo Elisha
    please help i used to have sex in the dream and prayed i was newly converted and the dream will go away and when i had forgotten it will come back for many years it used to be like that until i discoverd your website and started midnite prayers and the sex dreams will occur every week for abou four months then i told my spiritual mother at our church we prayed together and the dreams left… my suprise the last two two days i have been having such dreams……….PLEASE HELP ME WHAT IS IT THAT I AM NOT DOING RIGHT..honestly i want this demonic act to die….im a married mother of three born again though my husband not yet come to the Lord but ihave been faithful to him…….

    God bless you

  14. I’ve just started praying for a Godly spouse and i believe that God will give me my heart’s desire sweetheart.Is it advisable to pray specifically for someone u love?e.g if theres someone you love but does not notice you?

  15. osaruonamen igbinigie | January 28, 2010 at 2:49 am | Reply

    i jst saw tis prayer point right now, and i have started it,

  16. I greet you in the name of our Lord Jesus this yr 2010 Iam trusting God for a God Fearing Spouse many years i have prayed i have never been loved ever since everytime when i meet someone the friendship does not even last a a month i dont even get to know the person then he’s gone , it really worries me all my sister chop and change relatioships which is i dont like i want to have a God fearing spouse who’s on fire God I love the Lord with all my heart but i pray that before our Lord Jesus returns to take his bride also want to experince happiness in life though i know i will be happy home but my prayer is to have a spouse who loves the Lord Wholeheartdly . i have been married but in the 10yrs i lived with man it been hell all sorts of problems now my prayer in this 2010 i want to experience the favour of the Lord cause me and my ex we divorce but we leave together for the sake of his child but i dont love him and i feel iam not fair cause i dont love this man He sweras he likes fighing all sorts of things and me i want to be loved and treated like a queen but it has never happened, Please Pray that the Lord will have Mercy on me the Word of god say His Grace is sufficient to sustaine us . before my birth day in 2 months I beleive that God has answered cause my ex even throws on me that why i dont get a man yet i pray day and night .

  17. Ntokozo Ndlovu | February 5, 2010 at 9:40 am | Reply

    I got the webside from a friend and Istarted praing two days ago and I wanted to find if I pray the same prayer everyday?

  18. Im not sure whether this prayer goes along with my situation because I’ve living with this man for almost 4 years and everytime he will tell me that he loves me and he wants to marry me we got a daughter together and Im expecting the second child which is also his and he has father another woman and he is now spending time with that woman but when I approach him about that he will tell me that he just go there to check on his new baby I dont know what to do I just want to pray that things can go back to normal and he must just keep his promise I dont even know if he telling the truth when he says he loves me and he will ask for forgiveness and I will always forgive him for the pain he has cost me but he does’nt change he behaves as if the is something controlling him please help.

  19. @Anon, there is absolutely no way God can bless you living in sin. I am sorry but I look at your post and feel sadness in my heart. I am sorry if this comes about harshly but feel compelled to say so. A gem of God shouldnt let herself be treated as a door mat, your body is the temple of the holy Spirit, yet you have placed this man above God in your life by defiling your body. Remember Jesus’ anger in the Bible when they were selling things in His father’s temple?

    John 2:13-16″The Passover of the Jews was near, and Jesus went up to Jerusalem. In the temple he found people selling cattle, sheep, and doves, and the money changers seated at their tables. Making a whip of cords, he drove all of them out of the temple, both the sheep and the cattle. He also poured out the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. He told those who were selling the doves, “Take these things out of here! Stop making my Father’s house a marketplace!”

    What God has for you has nothing to do with this man or any man. What you first need to do is to seek God, cleanse yourself, and you can only do this by first moving out of this man’s house, and stop living in sin. How many kids will you have for him on the pretense that he’ll marry you? on what basis do you think he will marry you, what exactly does he stand to benefit that he isnt getting now?? We cant have one leg in the world, and the other in God, and then pray and expect God to answer. Point blank even if you fast from now to 2010, with the current situation as it is, it wont cause God to make him “want to marry you” or “for things to go back to normal”. God is not to be mocked, even if you pray all the prayers on here, nothing will change. Clean up, and serve Him right, and He will work out His best for you.

  20. Hi I’ve stumbled across this website and I find it to be very, very powerful. I’m in a marriage that I’ve been in for the past 8yrs and I’m not happy. I believe it’s because I sholud not suppose to marry him because we fought on the fifth day of our fast to find out if this is of the Lord but I still went on with the marriage. In our first year of the marriage we fought a whole lot and he started to have affairs on me when I found out about the affair he told me that he was sorry so I forgive him. Then I got pregnant and lost my child, then things began to workout for us then he started cheating on me again and this time I got pregnant again and I lost the second child this time the baby was not getting a heart beat. I feel like I’ve made a mistake when I got married to this man even though my mother was against it. Please help me and pray with me that I might ubderstand this whole thing.

  21. Ojediran Bukola | March 23, 2010 at 4:57 pm | Reply

    I want daily prayer, exhortation to be send to my mail box, I will be happy. God bless you.


  22. Ojediran Bukola | March 23, 2010 at 5:35 pm | Reply

    Mr Ada,

    I saw your testimony now. Please can you help me to send that prayer point you used. Please I need it because I want that miracle in my life this year. Peoples are be mocked me. Pls, pray for me.

  23. @Bukola, my sister, I wrote down my wedding date in faith because as children of God, we have creative power. I also spent time soaking up all I could regarding Xtian marriages. I had to take advantage of my waiting period and prepare, because I knew if I wasnt prepared spiritually, God wont bring me a blessing so that I dont destroy it with my own hands.. I found 1-2 Bible verses to stand upon, and I decreed them over myself morning and night. I’d pray “I am not a single woman, I am a married woman and my husband is out there”. I’d command my angels to make our paths cross, I’d ask the Holy Spirit to touch his heart and make him ready for marriage, and I’d pray for him (even though I didnt know him). You see faith is a crazy thing, it means confessing it even when there’s absolutely noone in the picture, and it can be very difficult. It also means getting to a place of rest with God knowing that you cant force His hands so its not like you’re serving him just so you get this.
    Marriage is God’s will, if you are living in righteousness, God has said He has given u everything that pertains to LIFE and godliness. Marriage pertains to life and godliness, so you can make your demand on God to fulfill His words to you. God wants you to be married, the thing is how badly do you want it? If you had to pray 2hrs each day on that matter all year, will you do it?
    There’s no clear cut formula except the faith formula

    1) make sure you are not living in sin
    2) make sure even if he brings the man, you dont fornicate b4 marriage
    3) stand your ground on His word, the enemy will bring doubt into your head, but if you stand your ground on His word morning day and night, that wont bother you. The WORd always bring forth fruit but you have to sow it 1st!!!
    4) Start preparing for marriage spiritually and mentally. Learn of all that is required of a Godly wife. Start learning to keep a home. Surround yourselves with Godly women you trust who you can look up to for advice.
    5) Start planning for your wedding. It doesnt mean telling people about it, keep that one to yourself. Even my own mother didnt know about faith confessions till after he proposed marriage to me, and I shared my testimony with her.

    Send me your email and I’ll pass on more stuff

  24. @Ada pls am interested send me the more stuff

  25. I want all the men of God to pray for me. Because i use to have bad dreams at times, that God should not let that bad dreams come to pass, and that the will of God be done in my life.

  26. Pray for me i get aGODLY SPOUSE

  27. i will be very glad to receive a daily prayer point in my email box on for personal uplift thanks.

  28. I need deliverance spiritually

  29. I need to now what is a spider spirit , because i see them naturaly and some times I see them when I am sleeping, and I am trying to kill them.

  30. Thanks and God bless you for reaching out to singles this way. I understand that the above prayer against spirit spouse is just part 1 out of 3 parts.Please i will like to have the part 2 and 3 of it to help me in prayers,i am making a lot of progress. Thanks a lot.(its urgent)

  31. Thanks for the guidelines on how to pray against spiritual husband at midnight. God has been awesome and wonderful. yes midnight prayer works a lot. it was when i prayed midnight that God delivered me from a big spiritual snake spirit inside of me. i never knew that. i am single, and i dont fornicate, i am still trusting God to bring to me my Godly spouse because i want to wed this 2010. i will try my best to do this prayer, i will take them step by step as you have instructed. may God bless you, please pray along with me.

  32. Hi, Thankyou for sharing your confession of faith concerning a husband. i’m going to start confessing that every day and night. I met a man and we are engaged I’m believing he’s the one. I do love him, How do you pray if you know youe fiance has the spirit of seduction on him . he doesn’t even realize it.

  33. makanjuola john | April 7, 2010 at 11:21 am | Reply

    Glory be to GOd for the grace giving to u to launch this site ,,may HIS wisdom continue to overwhelm u
    DAD,we are proud of u ,,,your annointing will never dry, in the name of Jesus…GREETINGSTO THE virteous woman that GOD gave to u for her maxmium support to the progress of this ministry.

  34. Okay. Thank you sir.

    Thanks for taken your time to read my message. I can’t remember this website again, but today I search the website through google, I will write it down now.


    I’m expencting your message again. My e-mail address is

    Thank you I’m very grateful.

    Thank you one million times. I’m so glad.

    Ojediran Bukola

  35. hello good morning sir,

    More anointing, more strength

    I sent my e-mail address to you yesterday sir.

    I am expecting more stuff.


    Bukola Ojediran

  36. Sir, God will continue to strengthen you. Please its your prayer i need and deliverance and i believe God for the best, very soon i will be congratulated and share the happy testiomy.. am starting the prayer tonite and i believe Gods for the right spouse.
    Thanks as i expect more of your stuffs

  37. Good evening sir.

    I sent my e-mail address to you last week. I check my e-mail box now, I didn’t see anything.

    Please sir, I’m still expecting more stuffs you said you will send to me.

    Thank you sir, more strength, more anointing in Jesus name.

    Ojediran Bukola

  38. Thank you for wonderful prayer of a Godly spouse. I used to have dreams as well but now i dont experience that anymore , it was all becuse of prayers. Im stil stil single and stil have fiath that my man is still out. They come and go and loose interest , is it possible to pray this pray for someone who has showed interest so much & he juss disappeared.

  39. Man of God,i thak God for life and also for the ministry.I have given my life to Jesus Christ and God has been faithful.But i have challenge that it seems as my life is not paying my thithe,i do give out what i have to people who are in need.i find difficult to keep within days of my pay date my money gone and i worst i have to borrow money.Please pray for me for GOD to show me what is that im not doing right.

    God bless you in Jesus name

  40. Can i please have Part 2 & 3

  41. I just stumbled upon your site and read your prayer. I don’t believe that there is a secret recipe but, but finding a husband for me and a father for my daughter is very hard. I felt that earlier this year The Lord confirmed in my heart that I will meet my husband this year (2010). I have waited for many years and am trying to hold unto my faith. I am learning though to find peace and content in this area, but there are times when it gets unbearable. I know that I was called to be a wife to a Godly man and to stand by his side and glorify the Lord Jesus. Please pray for me and I will take on your suggestions for prayer as well. Thank you.

  42. Dear Ada, may Our Good Lord reward you for the important message you are freely sharing with us. I just find it very important and so should every single Christians. i will be very glad if you send me daily prayer points on this matter in my email box – I’m of age and would like to meet my godly spouse this year, i have waited for long and the prayers i have been praying for years have not yielded any results. I will be glad to hear from you. God richly bless you

  43. I very happy to find this website.please pray for me for marital breakthrough


  45. I have really been fed by the prayer guidelines you posted and may The Lord continue to use you. You are such a Blessing, may I please have the full 30 day prayer guide for finding a Godly husband. Thank you and remain blessed. Also please may I have your number.



  46. Hello Ada firstly i will like to congratulate you on your marriage, i pray God almighty blesses your marriage and he will make you fruitful in every single area. I am not sure if you are the website founder or just a regular memeber.

    I have read your comments and i have to applaud them and give glory to God, the truth has to be said. we can not live in sin and thing God will bless us, i know the issue of abstinance can be quite challenging, but if you seek and fear God and ask his for strength it is possible to keep it till your wedding night.

    Sex before marriage is a no no no for God, its only by Gods grace and mercy that he has cleansed and and given us many chances, but you can not mock God. When you let another man who God has not permitted(not your husband) to touch his temple he is offended, we can all remember the story of Uzzah in the bible who God killed cos he tried to save the ark of God, the problem was not Uzzah, the problem was that David did not seek God first on who he wanted to carry the ark.

    We need to seek God first on who our spouses are, when we do i know the person will respect your body and their body cos God can never give you something bad. If we first seek the kingdom of God everything will be added ( including spouses)

    Does any one know where we can get part 2 and 3, and also Ada can i have your email address.

    God bless people and am believing that 2010 is our year, do i hear an AMEN 🙂


    my e-mail address:

  48. I want to trust God for a partner but i feel held back by past issues that happened to me. I was engaged in a relationship with a married man who broke my virginity and later I fell in love with my ex-boyfriend who later left me and got married to another lady a wonderful wedding. sometimes I feel used up and hatred towards men. what prayer should i make to God since I want him to bless me with a good husband. Please help.

  49. Thanks for the prayer site.

    i would like to know whether the prayers should be recited every day untill the revelation or
    a step per day

    Be Blessed, Mary

  50. gwen van wyk | April 29, 2010 at 2:53 pm | Reply

    i believe that this will help me a lot in the marriage to come with my godly husband
    thank you and may God bless you!

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