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JOURNEY INTO MARRIAGE (PART 1): FLEE YOUTHFUL LUSTS

6012. JOURNEY INTO MARRIAGE (PART 1): FLEE YOUTHFUL LUSTS

BELOW IS A PIECE OF CONVERSATIONAL COUNSELLING USEFUL FOR INTENDING COUPLES IN THEIR JOURNEY INTO BLISSFUL MATRIMONY. I HAVE SLIGHTLY EDITED IT TO REMOVE IDENTIFICATION. THE GOAL IS IMPARTING THE PRINCIPLE OF MARRIAGE AND NOT SHOWCASING THE PERSON GOING INTO MARRIAGE.

PrayersFire: I’VE BEEN PRAYING OVER YOUR MATTER AND THE SIGNALS ARE CLOUDY ☁ ☁ ☁, CAN WE DIG AND FIND OUT THE REASONS FOR THESE CLOUDS?

PrayersFire: WHY ARE YOU WORRIED BY HOLINESS BEFORE THE WEDDING NIGHT. HAVE YOU TWO BEEN KISSING?

COUNSELEE: “Yes Dad”

PrayersFire: DID YOUR MARRIAGE COUNSELLOR KNOW ABOUT THAT?

COUNSELEE: “He said we can kiss but not deep kiss”

PrayersFire: 😭😭😭 I CRY RABBONI’S TEARS. HOW DO YOU STOP FROM CROSSING THE BORDER OF LIGHT KISS INTO DEEP KISS? TELL ME THE TRUTH, IS IT POSSIBLE TO KISS LIGHTLY OVER THREE MONTHS AND NOT CROSS THE THIN LINE INTO THE TERRITORY OF DEEP KISS AND TOUCHES? SAY THE TRUTH NOW AND LET THE DEVIL BE ASHAMED!

COUNSELEE: “No Dad😞😞😞”

PrayersFire: A KISS IS A COVENANT BECAUSE SALIVA IS EXCHANGED IN THE PROCESS. SALIVA IS PART OF BODY FLUIDS. GOD FORBID, IF THAT GODLY COURTSHIP SHOULD BREAK BECAUSE OF UNGODLY AND INAPPROPRIATE KISSES AND TOUCHES, THE UNBROKEN SOUL TIES WOULD TROUBLE EACH OF THE PARTNER’S FUTURE RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE.

KISSING IS WRONG FOR COURTSHIPS. PROLONGED COURTSHIP IS WRONG FOR COUPLES. THEY ARE GATEWAYS TO TEMPTATIONS. IT IS BETTER TO USE THREE YEARS TO HEAR GOD CLEARLY AND PREPARE YOURSELF FOR YOUR GOD-SPONSORED AND GOD-ORDAINED SPOUSE AND GET MARRIED WITHIN THREE MONTHS OF COURTSHIP, THAN TO COURT FOR TWO YEARS BEFORE MARRIAGE.

IF YOU’RE NOT FULLY PREPARED FOR MARRIAGE, DON’T EVEN DARE CONTEMPLATE COURTSHIP.

PROLONGED COURTSHIP IS AN EXEMPTION AND NOT THE RULE. WHAT YOU TELL GOD BY THAT PROLONGED COURTSHIP IS THIS:

“O GOD, I’M NOT SURE, ABOUT YOUR CHOICE FOR ME, LET ME USE MY CARNAL FIVE SENSES TO DETERMINE IF YOUR SPIRITUAL CHOICE FOR ME AS A SPOUSE IS RIGHT OR WRONG!”

PrayersFire: KISSING IS PART OF FOREPLAYS, AND EVERY AND ANY PLAY IS FORBIDDEN IN COURTSHIP. WHY DO YOU THINK A BRIDE WEARS A VEIL ON HER WEDDING DAY? THE VEIL SYMBOLIZES CHASTITY, THAT IS, YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN “TOUCHED” BY THE GROOM IN ANY INTIMATE WAY. KISSING IS AN INTIMACY AND PART OF FOREPLAY, IT IS ABSOLUTELY FORBIDDEN IN COURTSHIP, WHETHER LIGHT OR DEEP KISS. SELAH!

COUNSELEE: 😭😭😭

PrayersFire: THE MOMENT YOU OPEN THE DOOR OF KISSING, THE DOOR OF EMOTION AND FLESH IS OPENED, AND YOU WILL NOT HEAR GOD CLEARLY AGAIN. YOU WILL ONLY BE HEARING THE VOICE OF THE FLESH. THE HOLY GHOST HAS BEEN HURT BY YOUR IGNORANCE AND DISOBEDIENCE, SO, BEING A GENTLEMAN THAT HE IS, HE WOULD JUST DEPART FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP QUIETLY UNNOTICED. HE MAY STILL BE IN OTHER ASPECTS OF YOUR LIFE, BUT WOULD DISTANCE HIMSELF FROM THAT CARNAL COURTSHIP BY WAY OF CONVICTING THE COUPLE IF THEY ARE TRULY GOD-FEARING.

COUNSELEE: “Dad … I really cannot say anything. 😭😭😭”

PrayersFire: FALSE PROPHETS AND IGNORANT COUNSELLORS MISLEAD THEIR VICTIMS AND COUNSELEES TO KISS AND TOUCH THEMSELVES IN COURTSHIP, BUT CAUTION THEM NOT TO ESCALATE IT UNTO SEXUAL AFFAIR. WHAT THEY DID NOT SAY OR KNOW IS THAT SEX IS FLESH AND EMOTION, TOUCH AND KISSES TOO ARE EMOTIONS. FLESH IS FLESH.

ROMANS 8:7: “The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God’s law, nor can it do so.”

WHEN YOU BECAME BORN AGAIN, ONLY YOUR SPIRIT IS BORN AGAIN AND YOUR MIMD IS CONSTANTLY RENEWED BY THE WORD OF GOD. BUT YOUR FLESH WILL NEVER REPENT, YOU ARE THE ONE THAT MUST CONSTANTLY PUT YOUR FLESH INTO SUBJECTION TO THE LAW OF GOD.

WHEN WRONG COUNSELORS TELL YOU TO TOUCH AND KISS DURING COURTSHIP, WHAT THEY ARE DOING KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY IS TO CREATE A FOUNDATION OF MARITAL INFIDELITY AND INSTABILITY IN THE FUTURE, BECAUSE THAT MARRIAGE WOULD PERMANENTLY BE IN BONDAGE TO THE DEVIL, AND THE COUPLE WOULD FREQUENTLY RUN TO THEIR FALSE SHEPHERD ANYTIME TROUBLE IS TRIGGERED IN THE FUTURE MARRIAGE BY THE DEVIL THEY OPENED DOOR FOR DURING PREMARITAL TOUCHES AND KISSES.

COUNSELEE: 🙆🏽🙆🏽🙆🏽

PrayersFire: THERE IS NOTHING CALLED SMALL SIN, OR BIG SIN. ANY SIN (BIG OR SMALL) WOULD LEAD TO HELL IF NOT GENUINELY REPENTED AND RENOUNCED!

WHAT YOU NEED TO DO NOW IS TO GO FOR COURTSHIP CORRECTION. THAT IS, GO FOR DELIVERANCE TO BREAK THAT SOUL-TIE INITIATED BY KISSES AND TOUCHES.

IF BOTH OF YOU HAVE HAD SEX BEFORE NOW, I WOULD HAVE RECOMMENDED AUTOMATIC AND IMMEDIATE BREAK OF THE RELATIONSHIP SO YOU CAN COOL OFF BEFORE SEEKING GOD’S FACE AFRESH FOR HIS WILL IN MARRIAGE FOR YOU.

IN YOUR CASE, SINCE THERE HAS BEEN NO SEXUAL INTIMACY BETWEEN BOTH OF YOU, THEN, BEGIN COURTSHIP AFRESH AS IF YOU HAVE NEVER KISSED OR TOUCHED EACH OTHER BEFORE. LET US SEE HOW BOTH OF YOU WOULD ADJUST TO TRUE AND GODLY COURTSHIP NOT SUPERVISED THIS TIME BY ANY IGNORANT SHEPHERD.

LET ME WARN YOU, YOU CAN’T BRIBE GOD WITH BRIDE PRICE. THAT’S WHY IT IS CALLED BRIDE PRICE AND NOT BRIBE PRICE.

BECAUSE YOU JUST PAID BRIDE PRICE IS NOT A LICENSE FOR DEEP CUDDLE AND LIGHT KISSES, IF YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED.

YOU HAVE TO GO TO THE STARTING BLOCKS AGAIN FOR THE NEXT THREE MONTHS.

COUNSELEE: “Dad when you say go for Courtship correction & deliverance do you mean going to God in prayer?”

PrayersFire: JUST AS WE HAVE MARRIAGE CORRECTION, SO ALSO WE HAVE “COURTSHIP CORRECTION”.

COURTSHIP CORRECTION IS ONLY FOR THOSE WHO HAVE NEVER HAD SEX WITH EACH OTHER BUT HAVE COMMITTED INAPPROPRIATE TOUCHES AND KISSES WHICH IS CONTRARY TO THE COMMAND OF GOD TO “FLEE. ALL APPEARANCES OF EVIL”.

2 TIMOTHY 2:22 (NLT) : “Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.”

1 THESSALONIANS 5:22: “Abstain from all appearance of evil”

1 CORINTHIANS 6:18: “Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.”

TWO STEPS TO COURTSHIP CORRECTIONS:

1. DELIVERANCE (ESTHER FASTING AND PRAYERS) TO BREAK INAPPROPRIATE PREMARITAL SOUL TIES.

2. FLEEING BY SHUTTING ALL HITHERTO OPENED CARNAL GATES OF INAPPROPRIATENESS.

COUNSELEE: “Thank You Dad will certainly do so.”

PrayersFire: THAT’S PHASE ONE. LET ME KNOW WHEN YOU’RE READY FOR PHASE TWO COUNSELING BY THE HOLY GHOST

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